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Tara Doridy
Tara Doridy

First date after matching online – coffee or dinner? Matched with a guy who seems genuinely nice. He suggested dinner for our first meetup, but I prefer coffee in case there's no chemistry. How do I suggest a change without offending him?

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Iren May
Iren May
May 20

Dinner is a big time and money commitment for someone you've never breathed the same air as. Just say this: dinner sounds lovely, but let's start with coffee or a walk first to see if we click in person. No hard feelings if we keep it short and sweet. A normal guy will say sure, makes sense. A guy who pushes back or gets offended? That's useful information right there. Coffee dates are low pressure, easy to extend into a meal if things go well, and painless to cut short if they don't. You're not asking for anything unreasonable. Stick to your comfort zone. For more first date strategy tips, https://wisedate.org/blog/ has good takes on screening for compatibility early.

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